The Forgotten Men: Where are the Male Leaders in Our Churches?

Many of us have observed a trend: in some churches, the visible leadership – pastors, elders, deacons, or ministry heads – often seems to skew female. While celebrating the vital contributions of women in church ministry, we also have to ask ourselves a difficult question: where are the men?

It's a complex issue without easy answers, but let's explore a few potential reasons and discuss how to encourage men to take bolder steps in church leadership.

1. Societal Shifts: Changing cultural expectations around gender roles have influenced everything, including the church. Men might feel less societal pressure to naturally step into leadership positions traditionally associated with them. It's vital to recognize that spiritual leadership isn't about power but about serving God and His people.

2. Lack of Mentorship: Many men hunger for guidance on how to grow into leadership. Sadly, churches sometimes lack clear pathways of discipleship that specifically address a man's potential role in leading and serving.exclamation This can create a sense of uncertainty about where they fit in.

3. Fear of Inadequacy: Men, like everyone, grapple with self-doubt. Doubts about their qualifications, biblical understanding, or ability to lead can loom large. The church community plays a significant role in supporting and affirming, rather than subtly disqualifying men who may need encouragement to explore their calling.

The Call to Action

Brothers in Christ, the church needs you. Your gifts, passions, and unique perspectives are essential to a thriving, healthy body of believers. Let me share a story:

John, a man in my church, always saw himself as a "background" guy. But his love for the Bible and steady character caught people's attention. With encouragement, he enrolled in a seminary course. That unlocked a passion for teaching – now he leads a thriving men's Bible study!

Men, don't underestimate your potential impact. If you sense God stirring your heart towards leadership:

• Pray honestly. Seek God's direction.

• Talk to mentors. Pastors, elders, or spiritually mature men can provide wisdom and guidance.

• Take a step. Volunteer, lead a small group, serve in a behind-the-scenes ministry, and learn what resonates with your heart.

The church isn't about any one gender being dominant. It's about each of us, men and women alike, using our God-given gifts to serve His kingdom. Brothers, may we rise up as the leaders we are called to be!